WE NEED TO WAR

Good evening guys, today i will talk about war, war for what? Ground power? Of course nope! Haven’t everyone known that there is the real life future? So why we have to war for ground power? We have a God that give us own the livelihoods, so why we still try to steal the other’s sustenance? I am not trying to discourse you guys but my parents give me a lot of lessons about this and i wanna share to you, hopefully it can give you a nice influence. Actually my parents discourse me so rarely, but they did anything well and unconsciously their children follow them. We were not from a rich family, my parents start their jobs from zero i saw their struggle. I wont talk about that, i just give you the point, my mother is the best giver i’ve ever seen, but my dad was not and prise God my father was changes be the best giver men version i’ve ever seen, my mom gave the awesome influences. My mom told me that after she was giving something, her job was going good and every problem could solve easily (this is a relative, we can say easy but another one can say hard it depend on our selves to face the problems) and she doing it frequently. But guys, please do charity because of your heart wanna do something good selflessly not because of you wanna get rich!

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verse 261:

The charity of those who expend their wealth in the Way of Allah may be likened to a grain of corn, which produces seven ears and each ear yields a hundred grains. Likewise Allah develops manifold the charity of anyone He pleases, for He is All-Embracing, All-Wise.

So, with what we have to war? The other religions? Oh this is absolutely wrong! I will give you a little concept, who did create you? And who did create everyone in the whole world? We was created by the same substance guys, i bet that you have known about it. So, will you hurt or kill the creates of our creator? Whatever your religions i will treat you the same, will respect you guys. I have a bit story about this. When i went to the mart there is a charity box there, no more thinking i got my money and ready to insert it into the charity box. Then my friend stopped me directly, she said that it’s for Crist’s orphanage, then okay i canceled. When i arrived home, i was thinking about that and wondering what i did? I just felt guilty and remember about our creator is the same why i should to ignore them? After that experience i never think twice to help anyone, no matter we have a different race, culture or religion.

            We need to war with the other city? Siblings? Relatives? Oh, of course we dont need that! Actually guys, i write this one for my self, this is the biggest problem in my life, that’s why i need to war and deal something better. We need to fight our negative thinking, to attack our worries about dreams, our laziness, yes WE NEED TO WAR WITH OURSELVES. Because the biggest enemy in our life is our selves. Actually i am not a totally negative think person, it only come in the some situation but it’s okay i can handle it. And i am never worry about my dream, yes i am a dreamer, i am dreaming a lot. BUT i am the super lazy person, this is my baddest habit (this not a shape of negative thinking i just saying the fact), i am fighting against my laziness. I was a bit changes but not much. So you guys who read this post please give me advice below. Thanks before, ton of loves for ya!

The Power of Positive Think #3

Dear anyone, i am sad when everyone didn’t believe that i have changed. They just thinking that i am still a  pessimism person, someone who a lack of hope n confidence, someone who still hold a bad habit for example couldn’t woke up early and a sleepyhead. I knew it was my badest habit i ever had, but please believe in me that i have changed right now. Just now i sent a message for my dad and asked him for woke me up at sure early morning, and my dad just replied “Are you sure?”, of course i didn’t reply anymore it’s not because i get mad but it’s because i wanna show him that i can do something which he didn’t believe in me. And again and again, i just wanna use the positif thinking even no one believe in.

Actually at this mid night i am going to write something about posotif thinking, i am sorry for always late to share about it especially now i am back in a normal activities (almost spend my times at collage and full of assignments). This story came from my last sister, when she was back from her school she told me “Sis, do you remember about what did yo do at the car with your lil red bag?”

            “Of course.”

            “I did your ritual today at school.”

            I just shock and began to interest with the topic we talked about and said “Tell me what happen to you.” I tried heard her story with smile all time.

            “Today my teacher divided some groups for art lesson tomorrow, we have to bring things for do it.”

            “Then?” i asked

            “Every single student got the one thing that they have to bring. My teacher divided it with write it on the little blank paper then she manyfold it and asked to us for picked it out. I felt worry about the things that i don't have at home. But i remember about your ritual several days ago, then i tried to do that. I wished and believed that i could get cutter. i really focused on my wish, and yap i got the cutter.”

            I just giggling, then look at her eyes and said “Then, now you believe about positif thinking?”

            “Absolutely yes.”

            That’s a little story from my little angel, are you curious about the ritual at the car with my lil red bag? Ahahaha, don't worry i will tell you about that one.

            At first i will tell you that i like red colour, okay that’s not important so you can ignore it. At that time i went to shopping and because of i like red colour so chose my lil red bag, but alas the rope was too long, so i wanted to make it shorten and i have nothing to make it shorten. Then i used very small needle, may be you will imagine it doesn't work as i predicted before. Fortunately i didn't want to trapped on my negatif think, then i did a ritual where i tried to got a focus and believed i can, my lips keep on move and didn't care about around (unconciously my last sister noticed me). As can as possible i pushed the rope up, and did it continuously, and yep yep yeeepp i diiiidd.

            Honestly, i like to share this sweet happen to you all, beside it make me more have a positif energy i hope it also make you get a lucky way in your every single day. See you at the next stories believer. 

The power of positive think #2

As always i will greet you with holla fellas. I will share my second story about the strength of postink (positif thinking). I dont know what this day, i know this Monday but i dont know the reason why they did a celebration.  Near of my house there was a little celebration, they celebrated with the game “panjat pinang”. Panjat pinang is the game where some people try to climb the bamboo to reach the presents on the top. If you are not Indonesian, may be you will think that it will bent. But absolutly you are wrong, because it use the big bamboo that smeared the oil so that they can’t reach the presents easily. In this game they devided to some groups, and the participans of this game just for kids. They still on elementary shcool with every grades.The game would begin at 1 pm.

The game was begining when i slept, yap i had a nap with my sister. But we wake up at 2 pm, from our house sound so crowded it made me going to the window’s room and see from the porch. I was in to their strungles, i smiled and then went outside and saw them more closely. After a few minutes i got borred so i decided to go to my room again and played the guitar. Actually i couldn’t play a guitar, a just play it randomly. My first sister like a music and impress enough to the guitar that’s why she asked our dad to bought the guitar, so the guitar that i play is hers. I also had a bit of conversation with my sister till the time showed up 3 o’clock. It has 2 hours they trying to reach their aim, but still they couldn’t.  I decided to go outside again, looked at them and their faces looked so tired. The committee tried to make easier, he picked the oil up so that the bamboo not slippery anymore and he removed some groups became 1 group . I really could see how tired they were, in the other hand i coultd see how happy they were.  I was going to the inside and carried some fruits and shared to them. They looked so happy and enjoy the fruits.

After getting a rest, they continued their effort, some kids trid to get on the top but they failed. Suddenly i remmembered about the strenght of posthink, there is a kid that did his effort and i wished he would reach the top, i also believed that he could. And once again priced God he did it! He look so happy brought the flag.

I dont care anymore with what about this day , why did they celebrate. But something that i learn is they trying to be close and keep on touch. It’s the sweetest momment in the neighborhood.

A day by day my belief about the strenght ot the postink is increase. Anyway, this is a second day after i have finished read that book. I will share more and more if i get that beautiful experiences again. See ya fellas, hope it can meaningful for ya J

The power of positive think #1

Holla fellas, i am trying to share about my beatiful experience hopefully it can help you get what i got. I have finished read the book “Terapi Berfikir Positif” by dr. Ibrahim Elfinky, and after i finished read that book i am tryrin’ to use it in my life, i mean always use positif thinking in every situation. This was my first time i practiced use the strong think full of posthink (positif thinking). In Saturday night 30^th Augst 2014 i went to the scout land with my mom and dad, our aim just for visit my sissy, but at that time there was a show art so i decided to watch the show but my parents have to go home and got a rest because they have to go to the another city at the early morning, so they left me alone at the scout land. Fortunately i knew that my aunt and uncle also there because their daugher follow the camp too, and i knew that 1 hour before i am going there they went with my youngest sister and their last daughter. I tried to contact my uncle, but it wasn’t succesful because at scout land was low signal. Too many people who watched the show, too difficult to reach my own way and saw the show clearly. So crowded here. I really wanna met my aunt and uncle and enjoy the show with them. So i tried to get a foccus and believe that i will met them immediately.  At that time my deepest heart said “God, i hope i can find my aunt. Yeah, i believe that i can find my aunt.” I just repeat that wishes continously, and suddenly there was a woman behind me and i thought i knew that sound. And, yap it’s my aunt’s sound with her daughter and my sister that trying to get a better view, i was so exited. Felt so happy and well, i believe with the strength of posthink.

At that crowded situation we still couldn’t see the show clearly and imposible enough to saw the show clearly because we were at the most behind of the watcher. But i didn’t give up, yap i mean i still tryin’ use the strength of posthink, i belive that whatever the situation i could get the good place and saw clearly. And just a momment the participants have to move from the stage, while they through the watcher we were try to go in front of the stage through the little space. And priced God, i got that place.

From my short story, i hope you can catch my aim. So beauiful when we keep our thinking always be positif, because it can influence the happen on your life.  Deside your life wisely my buddy J

where there is a will there is a way

            Hari ini tepat pergantian tanggal 17 Agustus 2014, pukul 00.20, aku benar-benar percaya akan statment “Where there is a will, there is a way”, kalimat tersebut memang sudah lama bersemayam dikamar kecilku, tapi apakah aku percaya? Tentu aku percaya tapi hanya percaya dilidah tanpa melalui hati dan kemudian mempraktikkannya. Mungkin untuk kalian yang baru pertama kali mendengarnyapun akan percaya namun hanya percaya percaya saja. Apa yang membuatku hari ini benar-benar yakin akan kalimat tersebut? Sebenarnya bukan oleh suatu hal yang luar biasa ataupun cerita yang sangat panjang, tapi justru hal yang sangat simple yang membuat hatiku yakin akan kebenaran statment tak asing tersebut.

            Aku adalah orang yang sangat santai walaupun aku sedang menghadapi masalah yang berat sekalipun ataupun mengalami kegagalan yang mengecewakan, aku selalu menyerahkan apa yang terjadi kepada sang pencipta, aku berfikir semua sudah jalanNya. Pikiranku itu tidak sepenuhnya salah, tapi tidak pula semuanya benar. Hal yang perlu dipelajari pada cara hidupku tersebut adalah kita benar harus menyerahkan diri kepada Yang Maha Segalanya akan tetapi bukan berarti kita sepenuhnya menyerahkan tanpa ada usaha sedikitpun. Ini adalah hal sepele, bahkan sangat sepele namun seketika dapat mengubah cara pandangku.

            Siang tadi sahabatku bernama Debby meminta tolong denganku untuk menghadiri acara 17-an sebagai perwakilan anak Fakultas Kedokteran, tentunya aku langsung menyanggupi karena selain ia sahabatku aku juga tidak terlalu sibuk pada waktu itu dan itu bukan hal sulit bagiku untuk menghadiri acara 17-an yang mungkin tak akan berlangsung lama, terlebih lagi sahabatku akan menghadapi 3 ujian penting dimana ia tak akan banyak waktu untuk meminta tolong kesana kemari kepada orang lain untuk menghadiri acara tersebut.

            Ia berhasil mengumpulkan 4 orang termasuk dirinya sendiri, iapun mulai memikirkan kostum yang akan digunakan hingga akhirnya diputuskan untuk dua orang menggunakan kebaya encim dan dua orang lainnya menggunakan baju tari, yaitu aku dan rani. Setelah aku pikir-pikir kembali dan aku bayangkan rasanya akan aneh jikalau kita menggunakan kostum dengan tema yang berbeda, memang sama-sama dari betawi tapi tema bajunya beda, aku hanya membayangkanya seperti manten yang di iring (karena baju tarinya ada tutup muka seperti manten wanita orang betawi).

            Waktu menunjukkan pukul 21.30 tanggal 16 Agustus 2014, rasanya sulit jika aku memutuskan untuk mencari kebaya encim disaat itu juga, selain mungkin teman-teman sudah istirahat di peraduannya juga aku berfikir akan sulit karena kemungkinan anak kost tidak akan membawa kebaya encim karena di kampus kami tidak ada acara nikahan atau acara kartinian setiap minggunya. Aku berusaha menghubungi beberapa temanku dan hasilnya tetap nihil, sampai aku sempat menyerah saat itu. Aku memutar otakku supaya dapat memodifikasi baju tari tampak seperti baju encim, hasilnya lumayan meskipun tidak terlalu berpengaruh. Akhirnya aku kembali berusaha menghubungi beberapa teman dan sahabat, sekitar pukul 23 aku mendapatkan 1 kebaya dari dwi christina aku senang sekali karena kebayanya tampak cantik, namun aku tak akan memakainya jikalau aku hanya mendapatkan 1 kebaya, karena aku tidak akan membiarkan Rani menggunakan baru tari tersebut sendirian, itu hanya akan tampak semakin nyata seperti iring-iringan manten.

            Setelah beberapa lama mencari dan mencari sahabatku Anes sekitar pukul 12 malam menghubungiku dan mengabari kalau temannya memiliki kebaya encim juga, seribu terima kasih buat Anes. Aku sangat senang, saat aku berbaring dan tak sengaja menatap statment “Where there is a will, there is a way” Oh my God i believe in You, i believe in this statment. Satu hal yang aku sadari adalah selama ini aku belum berusaha secara maksimal,  so i have to change my bad habbit!

            Keesokan harinya tepat pukul 6 pagi aku pergi ke tempat Dwi dan Icha, pemilik kebaya encim ditemani oleh Anes, pukul 7 kurang aku kembali menuju kostan Dita, sesampainya disana aku langsung di make-up oleh Dita. Setelah kami semua di make-up, kamipun menuju avenue dan berlatih yel-yel bersama dengan peserta pria. Dengan waktu yang demikian singkat kami menghafalkan yel-yel dan mengatur segala sesuatunya. Setelah kami siap untuk mempersembahkan yel-yel yang kami anggap sebagai formalitas kami menuju lapangan tempat digelarnya acara. Sebelum dimulai pembawa acara berkata “Sebelum lomba dimulai para peserta diharap berkumpul.” Kata kedua sontak membuat kami terkaget “Ini lomba???” kami saling melempar pertanyaan satu sama lain. Hingga akhirnya tibalah saatnya kami menampilkan apa yang sudah kami siapkan dalam waktu super singkat tersebut. Untung hal yang aku khawatirkan tidak terjadi, yaitu salah kostum dan memang kalau saja aku menggunakan baju tari tersebut kami akan salah kostum.

            Setelah kami selesai menampilkan penampilan singkat kami, aku beserta peserta wanita lainnya memutuskan untuk pulang terlebih dahulu karena rasa lapar yang tak tertahankan. Disaat makan kami mendapatkan kabar bahwa kami mendapat juara 3, sungguh unpredictable momment.